I have a guest blogger for you today, Elaine Stock, blogger at Everyone's Story whom I met at a writer's conference in St. Louis. She wrote about the American Dream of home ownership; see pic below for the unusual way she fulfilled hers.
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My American Dream—And Why It’s Changing
by Elaine Stock
One month after
my husband and I first met we became engaged. Eight months later we wed. There
was no child-on-the-way to factor into the picture. Just love. But, we were
young, oh, so very young. In hindsight, I can now understand why older people thought we were silly to
ignore the obstacles of lack of firm finances, advancing in post-graduate
studies, or horrors: not having a house.
Everyone needs a
house. A beginning. A foundation.
The realtors
treated us as if we were synonymous with the word Joke, showing us the worst of
starter homes. The banks demanded proof that we can pay off debt—hard to do
when you’re too young to have any!
And we had a
piano restoration business. We needed room.
I refused to
give up.
Husband
suggested the old railroad station up the road. In rough shape, we could pay
cash for it and fix it up ourselves. I located an engineer to see about designing
an accommodating septic system for our unique land situation. We both battled
with the banks for a mortgage.
And we moved
into our “Station In Life.” Half home, half business. It has been a blessing,
this unusual living arrangement.
But, I now want
more. See, I still dream of the American
Home. I want an extra bedroom and a bath. I want a “real” kitchen. Not
much, right?
Just as we were
paying off the last of our mortgage, this envious American social and financial
climate began to implode. People with The
American Dream Job and The American
Dream Home lost these taken-for-granted-niceties. Or, they had to
“downsize.” Life has changed for many.
I still dream.
But my dreams have morphed. I now try my best to walk down the lane leading to
my front door, keeping my balance between satisfying my human longings,
remaining satisfied with what I have in life, and looking upward to what God
wants for me. I can only trust Him with my future.
Elaine lives and works in a former railway station in Upstate New York.